You are So Special

You are so SPECIAL.

Hi All, It’s been a long time But here I am with all this.

I don’t know why people compare one with others. It does happen across every house now-a-days when Parents say, “SHARMA JI KA LADKA BANGLORE MEIN JOB KARTA HAI...40000 SALARY LETA HAI TU KUCH KARTA KYUN NI.”

I mean what’s the logic if SHARMAJI KA LADKA 40,000 KMATA HAI N MAIN KUCH NI. Just give me a Break. If I don’t have a 40,000 salary that doesn’t mean I don’t deserve respect or I’m not capable of. But “IN PARENTS KO KAUN SAMJHAYE??”
I’m sure this story belongs to every Young Individual who just could not get his Dream Job rather I know Being Jobless is a really tough Job to carry on.
Actually it’s not only about PARENTS because sometimes they understand in which phase you are going through when you mendaciously make them understand about you being Jobless. Like “MARKET MEIN JOB HAIN HI KAHA” or “WO FRIEND KAH RAHA THA KI ELECTIONS KE BAAD OPENINGS HI OPENINGS HAIN.” But one thing All Parents sure about their child that Not now but certainly their child will let them feel proud.

 There are a group of People(mostly Undesirable) in Everyone’s life who just get recruited to criticize you. You might not have as much tension as they have about you and your life.

OWWW BETE NE KYA KIYA HUA HAI!! ABHI TAK JOB KYUN NI LAGI?? And then whispering to your mother just to remind her n asks her KAHI TRY NI KAR RAHA KYA? HMARE BITTOO KI TO LAG GAI GURGAON MEIN JOB.

And We smilingly Congratulate her for encouraging our mother to take our personal Interview about being Jobless. (Meanwhile Our emotions about Bittoo rise up and we just wish “BITTOO TU MIL TO SAHI EK BAAR”

Isn’t It embarrassing? I mean how could you compare me with anyone else who is completely different creature of GOD?
Then our parents expect us to visit these type of Relatives. “TU KAHI ATA JATA KYUN NI HAIN KAHI AAYA JAYA KAR”

Everyone on this Earth is a different creature, have different ways of life and views. Everyone can not be a DOCTOR, an IAS or An Engineer. (I mean maybe an engineer). So let them Decide what they want to be and how they do it.

Success is always favourable but it will be fantastic when you achieve it on your own terms; with your true passion.

“Don’t compare Anyone with Anyone else.”

“Believe me YOU are very Special.”
Regards
KAMAL R. 

How to get relieve of your problems

How to get relieve of your problems

Welcome All to "The Transformation"

An optimistic always thinks that life is the other name of opportunities. But it has some high class hurdles also. As Failure is important to get Success these hurdles are also important parts of life.

Every individual, from a one day child to a 101 years old person, has his own problems. I think Nobody on this Earth is satisfied.

One of my friends does not have a Job that’s why he is in tension. Another friend has so many options so that he is in tension. One has Job in his own field but away from home so that he is in tension.

I think everybody on this Earth has a lots & lots of problems. But every individual is Unique. He has different views on different aspects of life. He has a different Thought Process.  He handles a problem from his own point of view that’s why some people get succeed to get over their problems and some might not be.

Actually Problem is not at all the core thing to focus on. We just need to focus on the solution of that problem rather thinking that how big this problem is.  The only solution to Every Problem is just change the way you look the problem.

Certainly there are people who are good to handle their problems but thinking on the other aspect of a thing may be making you realize that “It is not a problem at all”.

Recently I had a fight with my girlfriend (who is certainly my Ex after that fight) and I was complaining so many things while she was just ignoring me so that we could get out of this all. She had her own way of looking at this fight and my perception was completely different from her. I was little late to understand the exact situation before I could understand the different aspect from which she was looking. And finally she decided to leave me and left me as well. I don’t say here I was right & she was not or she was right & I was not but because of our different way of thinking we couldn’t get relieved from this problem.  

Here I just might have needed to change my perception. And I might have succeeded to get her back.

Final words:

This is again a free advice to you all.

“Don’t look for problem it only can be as bigger as mountain but just look for the solution may be this can be as small as a needle”

Thanks.

Stay Problem free.

Stay healthy and fit

Regards

Kamal R