Gyan "The Knowledge"

''Gyan Batne se Badhta hai'' (When You share your knowledge your wisdom enhances)
 

You must have heard this proverb in Hindi. But is this really applicable in today's life style? Do you really think you do it to enhance your knowledge or wisdom? Just think for a second. What does it real mean & how real people use it? or are they really use it or not?
 

Well almost everybody must have an idol in his/her life. He/she can be a businessman, an employee, a star, a sportsperson, CEO of a Company, your Father, Mother, Brother or anyone else. So just think about your Idol (excluding your father, mother and brother though they would be your real well-wisher) & try to fit them in this proverb. Are they really do this? Are they sharing their knowledge and experience with you the upcoming talent?
 

I'm not blaming anybody but the nature has been changed and continuously be changing. People's self confidence, self belief has been converted into ''Ego''.
 

Let's suppose if you want to be an Engineer or a doctor or any body else in the society and you are following somebody who can have some treasure of his knowledge & experience and wisdom and when you approach him would he be really help you to find out the right way? Most of them just share their success that will definitely excite you to make quick decisions of what to do and should you move into this or not? But they don't tell you the real story (mostly 75 % don't).
 

They just give you lectures not lessons. They don't believe in sharing their Failures with the rest. They just celebrate their success. I'm not writing this not to make you against your Idols. but just try to draw your attention towards reality.
 

Everybody starts from a scratch so if you follow somebody follow him/her from the moment he started.
 

Actually there would always be some hesitation to accept somebody & his perception who is known when he/she tries to do something out of the box. So for those who have desires to do something unique then don't try to convince your near ones to accept you but target the audience who are unknown to you. As they start liking your concepts they will try to follow you from the start rather your near ones won't understand this concept.
 

Regards
Kamal R

Being Failure is an Achievement.....!!!!!

 

   

Being a Failure is an Achievement….!!!!

You might have confused after reading this title, anybody could be. But whatever you are reading is absolutely right. Being a Failure is an Achievement.

You might have taken it in another way and might be thinking author has become mad. But I can bet on it whatever I have written above is right. And it would have been proved when you really realize it then you would definitely say that it is a great achievement.

I explained a lot of times in my previous blogs that live for yourself & listen to your inner voice and do according to that.

Most of the times you might have been scolded by your loved ones on asking about your future plans like what you want to do in life or telling why don’t you try in that particular field(which might have different from your core stream).  This is really frustrating, I know, but at these moments one thing is very important which is your inner world.

Many a times we live in fantasies or in Imaginations. That must be kept alive all the time. Those are the real hopes for them who are drowning down in the sea. That is the time when your real character would be tested.

Don’t afraid, Good phase gives you Happiness and Bad phase teaches you Lessons. Keep your mind open & keep your inner world alive.  

Just avoid everything and listen what your inner world tells you. Do what you want to do in reality.

That might be less luxurious but effectively will be more adorable to you. Just live for yourself.  Nobody cares for you when you are facing Failures. Just do what you want to do and achieve what would give you peace and real happiness.

You may have lots of money in your bank account but if you don’t have peace of mind everything would be wasted. And when you do what your heart say to you people might call you ‘Mad’. But don’t lose heart because if people don’t call you ‘Mad’ you probably might not be on the right track.

So just be positive when you get Failure & say to the world, “Yes, I’m a big Failure and this is my Achievement”.

 

 

The Thought Process

The Thought Process

Every individual is unique and he has a unique thought process as well. There is a very thin line between playing good and playing great. It is not about talent or potential one possesses but it is all about to deliver. Now how one's thought process plays a vital role in getting results.
Whenever one decides to do something he wants to do; his thought process makes him confused most of the times. Being an optimist or positive thinker does not make much difference if there is a little hint of doubt in mind.
  Every time one overcomes the hurdles; the journey becomes harder and harder. Every-time one steps up towards his success; the staircase becomes smaller in size & height becomes more higher. As one progresses towards his aim ''fear'' climbs up as higher as he is on. Fear of loosing momentum, fear of happening something wrong & creating hurdle of his own success.
  Everyone starts from zero. Right? So as higher you are from zero as higher your fear would be of loosing. And whenever you start with doubt in your mind, I guarantee you never get succeed.
You must have one of these two things to start with either a strong Belief system or a strong Passion.

I have explained in my previous Blogs about Belief System You can take a look here.

A Happy Thought 

Are you stuck in past or live in present? 

 I know one thing that if you want to throw this fear out of yourself the kid inside you must be alive.

A 3 years old child doesn't play game to win or loose he just plays to enjoy. He doesn't have fear to loose. He doesn't think what would happen if he looses or wins. He just enjoys those moments without giving any thought to it.

So every time you want to proceed and get success you must be fearless. And you would be fearless when you behave like a kid. 

Don't bother about what others think and what your mind says. Just do it in childish way and you will be Successful because you would not have fear.

All The Best.

Stay Updated.

Regards 

Kamal R

Are you stuck in the past or live in present?

Are you stuck in the past or live in present?

Welcome all!!!
Obviously we live in our present but how past affects our present is worth-mentioning. It can be in positive or negative way.
We have Past, Present & Future.
Past that has been already happened so that is uncontrollable. Now comes to future, which is still not come so that is also uncontrollable right? And Present is what that is going on now (At this moment only), as this moment passes it becomes Past.
Now how past things affects present?  You must notice this in any conversation we only talk about past or future. The ratio is 80:20. We mostly talk about Past.
As we think or have a conversation on anything related to past, it starts effecting our present.
Let's take a situation; we have 3 boxes Past, Present & Future. And we are on the 2nd box named as Present.

 

As we think about our past or future, it would not remain past or future but ultimately it becomes our present.

Now just suppose if there was something happened in your past that has given you a lot of pain.
And you are still thinking of it how that thing had hurt you then you are just recreating the same scenario again that would only give you the same pain nothing else.
In my last blog, I said that sharing is a good method to get out of your frustration. But sharing your problems with having an eye on the source of that problem is not worthy at all. You should share but considering solution of your problem not the source of your problem. It will give you nothing but the pain.
You must have heard ''History repeats itself''. This is the method how history repeats. We have taken that pain in the past recreating the same scenario in the present would also give that pain & it repeats itself.
One more thing I have heard about the past that says ''Remember your past so that you can improve your future''. It means not to repeat your past faults again.
Our belief system says if someone is hurting you in any way & you want to get out of this either change the person (nature-wise) or not to get involved. But that is also not in our control to change someone. Now what should we do in these situations?
You just need to re-arrange your Belief system.
The only thing that is under your control is "Yourself". Don't avoid anything in your life. but just prepare yourself for how you should respond to a particular situation to not to get hurt.
"Just make sure that your focus must be on yourself & your present only"
Stay healthy & stay updated.
Regards
Kamal R.