"Just Relationship"

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Just Relationship

Hi, Welcome back guys.

Today when I am writing this article there are so much negativity around me but still I take a chance to write this with so much positivity and maybe I would get succeed to write something useful to you.

Now I’m sharing here about relationships. Recently I have posted on my Facebook wall “Being in a relationship is not worthy at all”. So one of my friends posted a note about what he thinks about Relationships with the title “Why Relationships fail?” 

So I have taken some inspiration from there as well.

I think relationship needs only one thing that is “Trust”.  As far as there is trust in your relationship your relation exists. I don’t say relationship even survive without Love, care, affection and all. These are necessity of a true relationship. But most important is trust.

Most of the relationships break because of lack of trust. When one of the two partners doubt on other one relationship starts to get close to its end (conditions apply). #Self_Experienced.

One thing that matters a lot is situation. I personally trust that “when someone betray/leave his/her partner there must be some issue behind it” (If real relationship exists).

In Hindi:

Uski Bbhi Kuch Majburia Hongi’

Koi Bewajah Bewaffa ni Hota.

People think if there is any doubt in their relation so it would hurt and it’s over now. But it starts to get to close to its end when those doubts are not cleared. If your partner doubts you then instead of reacting negative on him/her it’s better to understand his/her state of mind at that time and the situation in which he/she is.  Maybe you would find that you would also react same as he/she did when you would be on his/her place at that situation. So when you have the chance to save your relation then don’t waste time to just save your relation.

Some people start ignoring their partners on these situations. It would certainly go worse than it and you would finally lose your partner. Just don’t ignore your partner and have a chat on the matter before critical situation appears when you have nothing but The Guilt of your Relationship.

Lack of communication only creates a Non cross-able river between couple. So don’t create it for yourself it’s better to have a healthy conversation and have a result instead of lack of communication & end of a relationship.

When people allege their partners then they might have a different point of view you just need to clear up the doubts & change the angle from which they are trying to understand the situation.

Hope this would help you find a better way to treat your partner & Relation.

Be Healthy & Take Care.

Regards

Kamal R

 

Guilt in a Relationship

Guilt in a Relationship

There may be so many times you feel guilty for something or for someone.

It is a human tendency when things are going wrong in one’s life he feels guilty of what he had done rather he might have some other options.

He might not be in the situation if he had been chosen the other one.

Being guilty & feeling guilty are two completely different aspects.

Mostly, we, humans, look towards negative. That does not mean we are not optimistic or positive towards life. But we always check for the risk factor.

When we have something to lose, we always think over how we could save it not for how we could get it. Some might be disagree with me on this.

But mostly it has been seen.

If a couple breaks off they think that they could have a better match. They might get faulty while they had been choosing their partner.

But a relationship always has a Best phase & a worse phase of its life.

In the best one everything seems great, both respect, love & support each other. They have best time of their life with each other.

But in the bad one, most of the couples leave each other & feel guilty for choosing them as one of the important person of their lives.

I don’t know why it happens but feeling guilty in these situations is completely wrong.

In bad phase that is the time for the real test for you to prove that you are always there for her in her happiness, sorrow and in every situation.

Always have faith in your partner & friend and when these type of situations occurs you must be there cheering your partner & saying “Dear I am always here for you.”

I am not guilty for whatever happened in my life but I am very happy for this what is happened because it would be worse than this.

I enjoyed presence of every one in my life, my friends, relatives, my love, my crush, my rivals and everyone else who supported me & were against me. I thank you all for this wonderful experiences. My life could not be like this without you all.

I am felling lucky to be not guilty of all this.

I just loved my past, I love my present & I will love my future.

Thank you all

Stay guilt free and take care.

Regards

Kamal R