Sunday, May 31, 2015

Experience Is a Great Teacher!!!

Welcome to "The Transformation".

Experience is a great teacher.

Before you go ahead and read this please make sure you are well prepared to read this. Do not read this to judge me or my writing skills. If you're really interested to know what my opinion is only then go ahead and read it. All the very best.

They say, "Experience and wisdom comes with age."

Experience, good or bad, is a great pioneer to your next step. Some may agree, some might not. Some would say why to make mistakes and get experience while we can learn from others' mistakes and experiences. Though it is important but personal experiences leave an indelible impression on our minds that are long lasting and invaluable. Like a good teacher her lessons are very thorough and we can only ignore it, to our own peril.

First of all, what ever we learn through our own experiences is long lasting. As anything what we learn from others, we forget that pretty quickly. As we are not aware of the process, we over look the advices and suggestions. But when we go through the struggles and hurdles ourselves we experience the whole process. This hand on experience help us to remember our journey and keep us alert for long time.

Secondly, in addition to extended impact learning by own experiences is most informative and understandable. When we realise something ourselves, we understand that more. These experiments and inference help us to master.

We learn from everything we do, in fact life is one great journey of learning. We learn patience when faced with adversity, courage in face of danger and wisdom from our mistakes. We must learn something from our own life to make our future better and ready to take care of hardships of our lives. It is very Unfortunate that some of us learn this lesson very late in life.

However in this short span of life we should therefore, not only from our own experience but also profit from others' experiences. This would save us from many a pitfall and the unnecessary labour that goes with it.

Tuesday, May 26, 2015

Avoid it N Get it!!!!

Welcome to "The Transformation".

Avoid a thing and you get it. How many times it happens whenever we try to ignore something it bounce back to us so quickly. Is it a coincidence all there is a difference prospect behind this? I think that there is a logic behind every ignorance. One does not ignore someone or something until he or she has a great reason to avoid it. And whenever we have any solid reason to do something. We do things more eagerly and with more passion.
So whenever someone tries to ignore he or she continuously thinks about that thing or a person that thought remains in his or her mind. One place has been occupied in person's mind for that particular thing.
Unknowingly you install a particular space in your mind for that particular thing. As it remains in your mind it becomes permanent. You get attached to that thing irrespective of that fact that you want to ignore it. Gradually it becomes more stronger than that it was. Ultimately whenever you ignore someone or something it becomes more closer to you. And you find yourself in condition of not avoiding it anymore.

Free advice: Do not give special Attention it leads to Addiction.

Signing off
Kamal R.

Sunday, May 24, 2015

Expectation always hurts.

Welcome to "The Transformation".

Expectation always hurts. You cannot expect people to understand you. It is completely their own choice if they really mean to understand you. You cannot impose your thinking and decisions to anyone. It is always better to accept the fact that there could be only one who can/could be close to you and that would be only you. If you think you can have a better friend or partner outside you. Then I am sorry to say that you are wrong. And you will remain in the same zone until you decide to leave this thought. It is human tendency to expect. We are brought up like this that we expect certain things from people. These people could be your friends, near ones, dear ones or your family. There are certain situations which are beyond your control and you could not expect or you have to survive on your own.

I know that people do not like free advice still I feel that ONE should not expect anything from anyone except himself. The one who opts for this power will definitely win the world.