Thursday, June 20, 2013

The Power of Acceptance

Most of the people on earth do not have the courage to accept who they are.
To be original one must accept himself in every situation, with his capabilities, his nature and his disabilities as well. The best way to lead your life is to accept all your capabilities & disabilities. Because so much sugar can be dangerous to health. There is always as importance of salt in the food as the sugar in a desert.
The right amount of sugar and salt in your food lead you a healthy life.
So to make balance in one's life one must accept all his positive & negative points. But normally people fail to accept their negative points because they want to show the world that they are perfect in all respective of life.
I don't know why people avoid to accept their faults.
Being accepted of both your abilities & disabilities make you lead a perfect life rather I would say there is nothing like perfect life. But if one accept all good & bad reviews of life he can lead a perfect life.
If there is a Day(Sunrise) then there is night(Sunset) as well. But we always look for the limelight of day in our life.
You must enjoy every moment of your life. Because every second of your life is important to you either in happiness or sorrow, in day or in night, in positive or negative. Every second must be cherished to its best. Because you can enjoy your food only if you have hunger.
If one want to change his behavior or improve his behavior towards something so he must accept first to bring about the change. If one can't even accept the faults he commits now he can bring that change in himself.
So to lead a perfect life understand the power of the word ''The Acceptance''.
Accept your weak points to improve and make them your strengths.
So I,Kamal R, is going to bring that change in myself. I accept all my disabilities & faults which I had made in my relationships with my parents, my friends, my relatives, my love & myself.
I accept & promise to everyone & myself, I will take care of the love, care & fight, the sunrise & sunset, the brighter & darker side of my life & your life without which I can not lead a perfect relation & a perfect life.
''Understand the Power of Acceptance.''                        
Regards
Kamal R

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Don't misunderstand to understand the misunderstanding


”Don't Misunderstand to Understand the Misunderstanding"
And this would definitely be applicable to all. Misunderstanding creates divide.
It is necessary for a relationship to have love, care and understanding.
No I do not mean that understanding is much more important than love and care but it has its own importance. When someone is in a relationship he may have the blind trust and faith in his partner. Having faith in your partner is good but blind faith is not good at all.
Obviously being possessive and jealous is natural in a relationship but excess of anything can be dangerous.
I'm not against being in a relationship but anything more than required can be getting worse than ever.
Most of the times I saw a minor Misunderstanding leads to divorce or breakup.
Break up from all the love, care, affection & trust.
When you are in a relationship You must be conscious of what is happening around you in your relationship.
It may be very easy for someone to create Misunderstandings and Break the relationship.
Misunderstanding makes you to be out of your own relationship.
Be honest and loveable to your partner and make your relationship as strong so that nobody can try to break your relationship.
I also was the victim of Misunderstanding. I had lost so many relationships just because of some Misunderstanding.
It always requires time to make new friends and make them believe that you are their true friend.
I also had taken so much of time to make those friends and made them realize that I was a genuine guy.
But it was hardly taken a second to be thrown away from all my relationships just because of minor Misunderstandings.
Friendship, love and affection everything needs a second chance.
When you would have believed in your friend, love & partner then make that count at crucial times.
Don't allow anyone else to decide future of your relationships.
Stay calm, stay trusted so that your partner can have that second opportunity to convince you and make you believe that your partner is always with you in your happiness, when you would be sad, when you want to celebrate and when you need someone to hug you & make you feel like you are really special.
Special to your Parents, to your best buddies & to your love.
So it is an advice to all
" Don't misunderstand to understand the Misunderstanding".
Stay healthy, stay awake.
Regards
Kamal R