You must have heard about
actress Jia Khan committed suicide. That case has become more complicated. Her
last movie was with Akhshay Kumar & her career was started with the Living
Legend Mr Amitabh Bachchan & in the very next movie she was with Mr
Perfectionist Aamir Khan. Nobody knows the reason behind this sad incident. The
whole Bollywood is “Nishabdh”.
Now the question arises” Is this the
solution for every Problem?”
If you get low marks in your
board exams & you don’t have courage to face your parents who always want
you to be at the top; so you can’t just commit suicide to get rid of all your
problems.
Is this the real solution?
May be for that someone who
wants to run away from all his problems but after this what would have been the
future of his dear & near ones who always have the dream for you to be at
the top.
They want you to become
somebody in the society so that they can say proudly that yes he is my son or
she is my daughter.
Sometime A person is in that
situation that cannot be bearable. May be he/she could have the courage to face
his/her problems.
May be the problem requires
more mental strength than they have.
My question is who is
responsible for these types of cases?
Parents? Police & System? Education System? Or an Individual?
Obviously this era is the
era of competition. Every parent wants their child to get good marks, to be
very athletic, to be No. 1 & to make them proud in any manner.
Sometimes they ignore the
talent of their child & make their child a puppet & want him/her to
perform well just to make sure that their child is ahead of someone’s child
& make them feel low.
I was watching television
some days ago & I observed that most of the parents pressurizing their
child to be no. 1, there are so many Reality Shows for kids now days &
parents just want them to get in at any cost.
They don’t want their
children to be at the top in one field but all fields.
When I searched for the
suicide cases in India at one of famous News Agency’s website I found more than
20 cases of suicide on the front page of that website.
And most of them had
happened within last 24 hours. Those were the cases I came through but the list
was not short enough.
Is our police system responsible for this?
I don’t know why people
always blame police force & system…!!!
If somebody doesn’t have
courage to find a safe way for his problems how police force & system would help?
Now days so many board exams’
results have been declared & some parents are very happy because their
children made them proud & some are searching for that smile which was on
the faces of their children at the time of vacations.
Not every child would be a
topper but does the grading system
divide students?
Teachers always appreciate
those on which they don’t have to work hard. But those who are little bit slow
in their studies don’t deserve a chance to be taken care of more precisely?
Some of the students lose
hopes against grading
system. They have more worries about their near & dear ones, how
would they react after knowing the fact about low grade of their child?
In the end “They quit”.
There are different roles of
teachers, parents and friends to encourage their students,
children & friends to be tough enough to face any type of problems.
Suicide is not the solution
for every problem.
There are phases when
pressure is so hard on the mind & we don’t know what to do.
In my opinion, the only solution of any problem in this world is “to
share” &” find the solution.”
The path may be hard but the end will be good.
Hope this would help you all
when you need this type of encouragement.
This time I, Kamal R is
signing off.
See you soon
Stay healthy
Stay fit
Stay focused
Regards
Kamal R.