Welcome to "The Transformation".
Grow Up kiddos
This blog is completely based on my recent observation. Today we hear a lot about boy-girl relationships and all. This blog is for/on this relationship only.
Before you actually go and read this stuff I must inform you that this is not my personal opinion but just an observation. Also this blog relates to every 2nd or 3rd individual in today's scenario. Here I will explain you how a boy and a girl think or what perception they make after getting approached by the opposite sex.
This title must be very much familiar because we usually listen and speak it in our daily life. Today before we actually start
I have a free advice for every reader, "Grow up kiddos".
In the recent past, a few days ago I have observed how both male and female react when they get approached.
Everybody does have the "PAST" by virtue of which he or she develops a prejudgemental attitude towards people. They start comparing their past to their present and Unfortunately there is no logic behind that of being compared of those. Past is something that had already happened and you could not do anything about that and the present is something you can mould or design as per your decision which you are gonna take next. So be careful While taking a step towards your future.
Now what I observed was that there was a girl who was good in nature, having good personality and good attitude. She always gives you back a smile if you smile to her. That is what I think a very gentle gesture. But here stereotype begins, to every guy (most of them) to whom she was smiled back, was thinking that the girl actually wanted to have a relationship. Like we say in hindi, "Hasee toh Phasee". That is completely different from reality. Every bad judgement will lower down your confidence, your attitude and your moral. So be assured when you make any judgement towards/for anyone.
Now the other side of the coin. This is something what I have personally experienced in my life. Whenever a boy approaches a girl stereotype begins. If I am approaching you that does not mean that I'm interested in you. Do not judge me if you do not know me.
First of all everybody is unique. They have different faces, build structures, different personality and attitude and the most important things different approach towards life. They all are so different how could you treat like one. Just because you have your prejudgemental perception.
I want you all to notice to things here
1. Nobody is same
2. Not everybody wants to have relationship with you if he/she approaches you.
I may understand boys scenario in first case they are supposed to react like this. But we expect something better from you girls.
"Break the stereotypes", "Grow up kiddos".
Free Advice: Take it or leave it.
Rise n Shine
Regards
Kamal R
Have a great Approach!!
Grow Up kiddos
This blog is completely based on my recent observation. Today we hear a lot about boy-girl relationships and all. This blog is for/on this relationship only.
Before you actually go and read this stuff I must inform you that this is not my personal opinion but just an observation. Also this blog relates to every 2nd or 3rd individual in today's scenario. Here I will explain you how a boy and a girl think or what perception they make after getting approached by the opposite sex.
This title must be very much familiar because we usually listen and speak it in our daily life. Today before we actually start
I have a free advice for every reader, "Grow up kiddos".
In the recent past, a few days ago I have observed how both male and female react when they get approached.
Everybody does have the "PAST" by virtue of which he or she develops a prejudgemental attitude towards people. They start comparing their past to their present and Unfortunately there is no logic behind that of being compared of those. Past is something that had already happened and you could not do anything about that and the present is something you can mould or design as per your decision which you are gonna take next. So be careful While taking a step towards your future.
Now what I observed was that there was a girl who was good in nature, having good personality and good attitude. She always gives you back a smile if you smile to her. That is what I think a very gentle gesture. But here stereotype begins, to every guy (most of them) to whom she was smiled back, was thinking that the girl actually wanted to have a relationship. Like we say in hindi, "Hasee toh Phasee". That is completely different from reality. Every bad judgement will lower down your confidence, your attitude and your moral. So be assured when you make any judgement towards/for anyone.
Now the other side of the coin. This is something what I have personally experienced in my life. Whenever a boy approaches a girl stereotype begins. If I am approaching you that does not mean that I'm interested in you. Do not judge me if you do not know me.
First of all everybody is unique. They have different faces, build structures, different personality and attitude and the most important things different approach towards life. They all are so different how could you treat like one. Just because you have your prejudgemental perception.
I want you all to notice to things here
1. Nobody is same
2. Not everybody wants to have relationship with you if he/she approaches you.
I may understand boys scenario in first case they are supposed to react like this. But we expect something better from you girls.
"Break the stereotypes", "Grow up kiddos".
Free Advice: Take it or leave it.
Rise n Shine
Regards
Kamal R
Have a great Approach!!