Sunday, May 31, 2015

Experience Is a Great Teacher!!!

Welcome to "The Transformation".

Experience is a great teacher.

Before you go ahead and read this please make sure you are well prepared to read this. Do not read this to judge me or my writing skills. If you're really interested to know what my opinion is only then go ahead and read it. All the very best.

They say, "Experience and wisdom comes with age."

Experience, good or bad, is a great pioneer to your next step. Some may agree, some might not. Some would say why to make mistakes and get experience while we can learn from others' mistakes and experiences. Though it is important but personal experiences leave an indelible impression on our minds that are long lasting and invaluable. Like a good teacher her lessons are very thorough and we can only ignore it, to our own peril.

First of all, what ever we learn through our own experiences is long lasting. As anything what we learn from others, we forget that pretty quickly. As we are not aware of the process, we over look the advices and suggestions. But when we go through the struggles and hurdles ourselves we experience the whole process. This hand on experience help us to remember our journey and keep us alert for long time.

Secondly, in addition to extended impact learning by own experiences is most informative and understandable. When we realise something ourselves, we understand that more. These experiments and inference help us to master.

We learn from everything we do, in fact life is one great journey of learning. We learn patience when faced with adversity, courage in face of danger and wisdom from our mistakes. We must learn something from our own life to make our future better and ready to take care of hardships of our lives. It is very Unfortunate that some of us learn this lesson very late in life.

However in this short span of life we should therefore, not only from our own experience but also profit from others' experiences. This would save us from many a pitfall and the unnecessary labour that goes with it.

Tuesday, May 26, 2015

Avoid it N Get it!!!!

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Avoid a thing and you get it. How many times it happens whenever we try to ignore something it bounce back to us so quickly. Is it a coincidence all there is a difference prospect behind this? I think that there is a logic behind every ignorance. One does not ignore someone or something until he or she has a great reason to avoid it. And whenever we have any solid reason to do something. We do things more eagerly and with more passion.
So whenever someone tries to ignore he or she continuously thinks about that thing or a person that thought remains in his or her mind. One place has been occupied in person's mind for that particular thing.
Unknowingly you install a particular space in your mind for that particular thing. As it remains in your mind it becomes permanent. You get attached to that thing irrespective of that fact that you want to ignore it. Gradually it becomes more stronger than that it was. Ultimately whenever you ignore someone or something it becomes more closer to you. And you find yourself in condition of not avoiding it anymore.

Free advice: Do not give special Attention it leads to Addiction.

Signing off
Kamal R.

Sunday, May 24, 2015

Expectation always hurts.

Welcome to "The Transformation".

Expectation always hurts. You cannot expect people to understand you. It is completely their own choice if they really mean to understand you. You cannot impose your thinking and decisions to anyone. It is always better to accept the fact that there could be only one who can/could be close to you and that would be only you. If you think you can have a better friend or partner outside you. Then I am sorry to say that you are wrong. And you will remain in the same zone until you decide to leave this thought. It is human tendency to expect. We are brought up like this that we expect certain things from people. These people could be your friends, near ones, dear ones or your family. There are certain situations which are beyond your control and you could not expect or you have to survive on your own.

I know that people do not like free advice still I feel that ONE should not expect anything from anyone except himself. The one who opts for this power will definitely win the world. 

Thursday, April 9, 2015

Love People or Leave People

Welcome to "The Transformation".


People come and go!!

Feelings remain in the heart. People live in the hearts. Time never return, even you can't follow the time. The best you can do is to remain in touch with people to whom do you think they are close to you. Take out time from your busy schedule to meet and to Re-Live those moments which you will always cherish.

If you are attached to someone please go and share your attachment to him/her. Maybe you do not get another chance to live these moments again. Go and live your life.

Rise and Shine.

Regards
Kamal R

Saturday, May 31, 2014

Pencil Sketch of GOD of Cricket

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Welcome to Sketch Art.

Sachin Ramesh Tendulkar known for his contribution to Cricket. Master Blaster named as the 'God Of Cricket' by the rest of the cricket world and fans. He is the only batsman who have a long really long list of record. May God Bless him always.

Friday, May 23, 2014

You are So Special

You are so SPECIAL.

Hi All, It’s been a long time But here I am with all this.

I don’t know why people compare one with others. It does happen across every house now-a-days when Parents say, “SHARMA JI KA LADKA BANGLORE MEIN JOB KARTA HAI...40000 SALARY LETA HAI TU KUCH KARTA KYUN NI.”

I mean what’s the logic if SHARMAJI KA LADKA 40,000 KMATA HAI N MAIN KUCH NI. Just give me a Break. If I don’t have a 40,000 salary that doesn’t mean I don’t deserve respect or I’m not capable of. But “IN PARENTS KO KAUN SAMJHAYE??”
I’m sure this story belongs to every Young Individual who just could not get his Dream Job rather I know Being Jobless is a really tough Job to carry on.
Actually it’s not only about PARENTS because sometimes they understand in which phase you are going through when you mendaciously make them understand about you being Jobless. Like “MARKET MEIN JOB HAIN HI KAHA” or “WO FRIEND KAH RAHA THA KI ELECTIONS KE BAAD OPENINGS HI OPENINGS HAIN.” But one thing All Parents sure about their child that Not now but certainly their child will let them feel proud.

 There are a group of People(mostly Undesirable) in Everyone’s life who just get recruited to criticize you. You might not have as much tension as they have about you and your life.

OWWW BETE NE KYA KIYA HUA HAI!! ABHI TAK JOB KYUN NI LAGI?? And then whispering to your mother just to remind her n asks her KAHI TRY NI KAR RAHA KYA? HMARE BITTOO KI TO LAG GAI GURGAON MEIN JOB.

And We smilingly Congratulate her for encouraging our mother to take our personal Interview about being Jobless. (Meanwhile Our emotions about Bittoo rise up and we just wish “BITTOO TU MIL TO SAHI EK BAAR”

Isn’t It embarrassing? I mean how could you compare me with anyone else who is completely different creature of GOD?
Then our parents expect us to visit these type of Relatives. “TU KAHI ATA JATA KYUN NI HAIN KAHI AAYA JAYA KAR”

Everyone on this Earth is a different creature, have different ways of life and views. Everyone can not be a DOCTOR, an IAS or An Engineer. (I mean maybe an engineer). So let them Decide what they want to be and how they do it.

Success is always favourable but it will be fantastic when you achieve it on your own terms; with your true passion.

“Don’t compare Anyone with Anyone else.”

“Believe me YOU are very Special.”
Regards
KAMAL R.