Gradients in the Recipe of Life

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What has been left now? I don’t know what to write next.

Actually I need some suggestions from you guys. I require feedback from you. Positive or negative whatever it may be but I need this from you.

Some of my close friends complimented me on my Last Blog. One called me “Kamal the Writer”. The other one suggested me to write a novel. I thanked them.

I can’t talk to everybody to know the status of my Blog. So please, I request you all, do comment on my Blog. Give me some suggestions or feedback about my writing skills so that I can improve.

Gradients in the Recipe of Life

I start with the sentence,” Success comes from Experience & Experience comes from Bad Experiences.” 

That means to enjoy your Success fully you must be a failure in the past. Here failure means Experience. In this world, if you want to be at the top, you must start form the ground. Then step by step move up & continuously aiming for your aim & that will definitely let you be at the top.

There are some important gradients in the recipe of Life that would make you a Successful Human Being.

•        Positivity
•       Calmness
•       Passion
•      Doer

These all are complementary to each other. If one of them stated above is missing, you will be lacking in your life.

Positivity:- It is easy to say that I’m optimistic or a positive thinker. But in reality No human being can control his thoughts.

A Human Being thinks on more than 50,000 thoughts in a day. He has not have command on his thoughts. It’s a natural process.

It is mandatory where ever there is light, there must be a darker side (shadow).

Same is applicable with this Positivity comes with Negativity.

Now the question arises how to manage to be positive? The only solution is to be a good listener/observer. Until you don’t analyse a thought you could not say whether it is a Positive one or Negative one. To remain Positive you must concentrate on Positive only.

You just need to set your measures to decide what is positive & what is negative…!

Just keep the positive ones with you & ignore the rest.

Calmness:- Why calmness?

 To take any right decision of your life you must consider both sides of the coin & for that you must be calm & relax. Because..

“Ek sahi Kaam ko karne ke liye Josh ke sath sath Hosh Ki bhi Jarurat hoti hai”

Passion:- Passion leads any Impossible thing into Reality.

Every time you decide to do something you need to have that passion to do it right. Without it I don’t think one can achieve something.

Whenever you feel that you have a strong desire to do a particular thing that means you have strong passion to do that.

 Whatever which gives you happiness without having the second thought develop a Passion within you.

Doer:- If you are having all the above stated qualities but you are not a DOER then it is all waste. Until you don’t have courage to pursue your desire into reality everything is waste.

So just do it.

When you have taken Positivity, you have a great Passion & have the Calmness required then Just be a Doer & Do it.

Do it for your Passion, for your Success, for your Life.

Thank you all.

Hope this will help you.

I will be waiting for your feedback.

Regards

Kamal R. 

A Medicine to all your Problems: Suicide?

You must have heard about actress Jia Khan committed suicide. That case has become more complicated. Her last movie was with Akhshay Kumar & her career was started with the Living Legend Mr Amitabh Bachchan & in the very next movie she was with Mr Perfectionist Aamir Khan. Nobody knows the reason behind this sad incident. The whole Bollywood is “Nishabdh”.

Now the question arises” Is this the solution for every Problem?”

If you get low marks in your board exams & you don’t have courage to face your parents who always want you to be at the top; so you can’t just commit suicide to get rid of all your problems.

Is this the real solution?

May be for that someone who wants to run away from all his problems but after this what would have been the future of his dear & near ones who always have the dream for you to be at the top.

They want you to become somebody in the society so that they can say proudly that yes he is my son or she is my daughter.

Sometime A person is in that situation that cannot be bearable. May be he/she could have the courage to face his/her problems.

May be the problem requires more mental strength than they have.

My question is who is responsible for these types of cases?

Parents? Police & System? Education System? Or an Individual?

Obviously this era is the era of competition. Every parent wants their child to get good marks, to be very athletic, to be No. 1 & to make them proud in any manner.

Sometimes they ignore the talent of their child & make their child a puppet & want him/her to perform well just to make sure that their child is ahead of someone’s child & make them feel low.

I was watching television some days ago & I observed that most of the parents pressurizing their child to be no. 1, there are so many Reality Shows for kids now days & parents just want them to get in at any cost.

They don’t want their children to be at the top in one field but all fields.

When I searched for the suicide cases in India at one of famous News Agency’s website I found more than 20 cases of suicide on the front page of that website.

And most of them had happened within last 24 hours. Those were the cases I came through but the list was not short enough.

Is our police system responsible for this?

I don’t know why people always blame police force & system…!!!

If somebody doesn’t have courage to find a safe way for his problems how police force & system would help?

Now days so many board exams’ results have been declared & some parents are very happy because their children made them proud & some are searching for that smile which was on the faces of their children at the time of vacations.

Not every child would be a topper but does the grading system divide students?

Teachers always appreciate those on which they don’t have to work hard. But those who are little bit slow in their studies don’t deserve a chance to be taken care of more precisely?

Some of the students lose hopes against grading system. They have more worries about their near & dear ones, how would they react after knowing the fact about low grade of their child?

In the end “They quit”.

There are different roles of teachers, parents and friends to encourage their students, children & friends to be tough enough to face any type of problems.

Suicide is not the solution for every problem.

There are phases when pressure is so hard on the mind & we don’t know what to do.

In my opinion, the only solution of any problem in this world is “to share” &” find the solution.”

The path may be hard but the end will be good.

Hope this would help you all when you need this type of encouragement.

This time I, Kamal R is signing off.

See you soon

Stay healthy

Stay fit

Stay focused

Regards

Kamal R.

Guilt in a Relationship

Guilt in a Relationship

There may be so many times you feel guilty for something or for someone.

It is a human tendency when things are going wrong in one’s life he feels guilty of what he had done rather he might have some other options.

He might not be in the situation if he had been chosen the other one.

Being guilty & feeling guilty are two completely different aspects.

Mostly, we, humans, look towards negative. That does not mean we are not optimistic or positive towards life. But we always check for the risk factor.

When we have something to lose, we always think over how we could save it not for how we could get it. Some might be disagree with me on this.

But mostly it has been seen.

If a couple breaks off they think that they could have a better match. They might get faulty while they had been choosing their partner.

But a relationship always has a Best phase & a worse phase of its life.

In the best one everything seems great, both respect, love & support each other. They have best time of their life with each other.

But in the bad one, most of the couples leave each other & feel guilty for choosing them as one of the important person of their lives.

I don’t know why it happens but feeling guilty in these situations is completely wrong.

In bad phase that is the time for the real test for you to prove that you are always there for her in her happiness, sorrow and in every situation.

Always have faith in your partner & friend and when these type of situations occurs you must be there cheering your partner & saying “Dear I am always here for you.”

I am not guilty for whatever happened in my life but I am very happy for this what is happened because it would be worse than this.

I enjoyed presence of every one in my life, my friends, relatives, my love, my crush, my rivals and everyone else who supported me & were against me. I thank you all for this wonderful experiences. My life could not be like this without you all.

I am felling lucky to be not guilty of all this.

I just loved my past, I love my present & I will love my future.

Thank you all

Stay guilt free and take care.

Regards

Kamal R

Five Effective ways to get out of Frustration

Five Effective ways to get out of Frustration

Being frustrated is very common problem of one’s daily life. There are things which lead you to be frustrated. Here I’m not going to explain which results in frustration. But I’m going to tell you about the solution to get out of the frustration.

1st way: Take a pillow or a punching bag & punch until your frustration goes down. As when one get frustrated or get angry over a thing or a person, one always look forward to target that thing or that person. At these moments one look to attack which is natural. So pillow is a better option than to target a person. It would be beneficial in another way as well that pillow would not reply you back after being punched by you.

2^nd way:  Now being in a relationship or having a best friend benefits you at this moment. As sharing is a method to find out the way to celebrate in happiness & to find out the solution in problems. When one shares his emotions with others, it drives him into a close relationship & he can find a way to get out of his problems as well. When someone makes you feel confident whether you are right or wrong, that is the person who can make you believe in yourself & get out of these situations & feel awesome.

3^rd way: the next way is for those who do not have good friends or who do not believe in sharing their personal life with others. Make it a habit to write moments your daily life on a paper or in a diary rather you can post that paper to the person who creates frustration for you but with terms & conditions apply because how that person would react is completely unpredictable. It is called as “Virtual Relationship”.

4^th way: meditation can be a great measure against frustration. Meditation allows your mind to be calm & makes you to have control on your mind. To control your mind means you would be able to control your emotions. You can stand out neutral at peak situations like when there would be extreme surprising situation & in extreme shocking situation as well. So just do it regularly & make you a peaceful & cool person.

5^th way: this is the coolest way to get out of these situations. Do what you most likely to do. Don’t think on the situation; don’t think what others think about you. Just do what you like to do. Use your habits & interests to find out the way to get relaxed. You can sing, dance, play or paint. The interests which give you internal pleasure make ways for you to get out of these situations. There are important measures to find out the best way which gives you immense pleasure. Just compare your interest against money & time you will find the answer. The thing you can do without giving the second thought to money & time is the thing which can help you.

Apart from the entire methods one most important thing which is necessary is “not to react immediately”.

Everything fails if you react immediately. Just take a pause for some seconds before reacting before someone or for something. Get your breath back and analyze the situation & find out the best way to get out of it accordingly.

Hope this would help you out.

Stay updated.

Regards

Kamal R.

A HAPPY THOUGHT

 

A Happy Thought

Being happy is an awesome feeling for everybody. Happiness is the power you live for. This is the thing for which you do hard work from morning till night. Mostly might have thought that I’m talking about money here. But I must clear out that I’m not talking about money rather money is a necessary thing for surviving. But a real pleasure can give you the real motive of your life.

In this era value of happiness is being changed for everybody. Obviously one must have aim of his life but he has made his life dependent of that particular thing.

First we set goals; we achieve them & set new goals to achieve. That is what our life has been meant to us. Mostly people search happiness in these things. But this type of happiness is not permanent.

Just suppose one is looking forward to achieve something in his life and finally one day he achieved his goal & he gets happy for achieving his goal. But at the next moment he desires for the newer goals & again he involves himself into his work to achieve the newer set goal. He does not have time to be happy for his achievements. Every time he gets his goal his desires lead him to work for his next goal. As it is a human tendency “when we achieve something we desire for something bigger than what we have achieved.” So ultimately we have time to set new goals & we think that it would give us a great pleasure or happiness. But we don’t have time to enjoy that achievement. Actually we have the pleasure but on temporary basis.  

Now different people have different set of desires like somebody gets happy to earn money; somebody to get respect; somebody to achieve & somebody to help others. Different people have their own credentials’ to be happy. But all is for temporary period.

I always talk about internal pleasure.

If one can play guitar well & he only plays when girls are around to impress them. Then that is not the real pleasure what I’m talking about. That is just for temporary period. The real desire is to impress girls not to play guitar. But if you can play guitar when you are all alone & that brings smile on your face or makes you feel the satisfaction that would be the real pleasure.

Obviously this is the era of competition for everybody in any field. The basic motto of one’s life must be to get his happiness. But the standards change with time. Now people live to earn, to get respect, to be famous, to be somebody in the society. But nobody lives to get happy. (I congratulate those who live for happiness of their lives.)

There are ups & downs in one’s life & both are essential part of life.

A real pleasure or happiness gives you power to survive in the bad phase of your life.

We compare things to motivate ourselves to be happy. We just create conditions to be happy. As we would achieve this we would have been a happy person. And immediately we set new one.

It’s a free advice to all and to me. Just live to enjoy every moment of your life. Life is valuable so live it to its best.

Stay happy & stay updated.

Regards

Kamal R

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Tips to Improve Your Writing Skills

"How to Improve Writing Skills"

Hello Guys. Welcome to “The Transformation”.

In my previous Blogs Being Failure is my Achievement, Motivation by Inspiration, Gyan " The Knowledge"  I was writing only Inspirational and Motivational Articles only.  

So here I’m going to tell you something informational “How to improve writing skills”.

This would not make a world class author but provide you some basic knowledge that will help you to write a good and healthy article or a Blog. Certainly it is not a big thing to write but definitely it requires ability to write Impressive content that would turn your visitors into your Readers.  

Here I’m going to share my secret how I do write my Blog Articles. I just follow these guidelines

• Be Original 
• Have Patience

Being patient is the trick which works for me. I always try to listen or read something carefully. As it may be the title or topic of my next blog.

Every individual has his own unique way of thinking. That’s why some are Successful or some might not be in managing their thoughts.

These are the important gradients when you start to write something.

Be Original:

When you start to write just make sure that whatever you write must be original in content. Do not copy your content. Just write what you really follow in your real life. People will follow you if and only if you do follow what you are saying others through your articles or blog. Just be original.

Be Patient:

Have patience while you are thinking to write something. Just consider these tips before you think to write your content.     

• Observe Carefully  
• Analyze  Content 
•  Finally Write

Observe Carefully:

Now what you have to do to observe is just “Listen Everything & Everybody”. As I already told you Everybody is unique in the way of managing their thoughts. So it could be better for you and your writing skills to listen everything and everybody. This is the very first step in writing.

Analysis:

It is not necessary that Whatever you have listened must be Good or Impressive. So just Analyze what you have listened whether it would match with your thought System or Would it require some changes according to what you think about it.

Every coin has its two sides so just make sure you would consider both sides of the coin and then finalize with your content.

Here I’m not telling you to copy your content but take some inspiration and write what you really want to say.  

Write:

When you are done with the above steps you are finally ready to write your article. Above steps are necessary because it is important to understand you first before you give some suggestions or information to others.

Final words: 

Hope these tips will help you to generate Quality Content. Certainly It helped me a lot in my writing skills. For anything you want to ask me about this you can comment below. I would love to reply your queries as soon as possible. Be original and Have patience.

Regards

Kamal R  

  

How to get relieve of your problems

How to get relieve of your problems

Welcome All to "The Transformation"

An optimistic always thinks that life is the other name of opportunities. But it has some high class hurdles also. As Failure is important to get Success these hurdles are also important parts of life.

Every individual, from a one day child to a 101 years old person, has his own problems. I think Nobody on this Earth is satisfied.

One of my friends does not have a Job that’s why he is in tension. Another friend has so many options so that he is in tension. One has Job in his own field but away from home so that he is in tension.

I think everybody on this Earth has a lots & lots of problems. But every individual is Unique. He has different views on different aspects of life. He has a different Thought Process.  He handles a problem from his own point of view that’s why some people get succeed to get over their problems and some might not be.

Actually Problem is not at all the core thing to focus on. We just need to focus on the solution of that problem rather thinking that how big this problem is.  The only solution to Every Problem is just change the way you look the problem.

Certainly there are people who are good to handle their problems but thinking on the other aspect of a thing may be making you realize that “It is not a problem at all”.

Recently I had a fight with my girlfriend (who is certainly my Ex after that fight) and I was complaining so many things while she was just ignoring me so that we could get out of this all. She had her own way of looking at this fight and my perception was completely different from her. I was little late to understand the exact situation before I could understand the different aspect from which she was looking. And finally she decided to leave me and left me as well. I don’t say here I was right & she was not or she was right & I was not but because of our different way of thinking we couldn’t get relieved from this problem.  

Here I just might have needed to change my perception. And I might have succeeded to get her back.

Final words:

This is again a free advice to you all.

“Don’t look for problem it only can be as bigger as mountain but just look for the solution may be this can be as small as a needle”

Thanks.

Stay Problem free.

Stay healthy and fit

Regards

Kamal R